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After extensive foreplay, the man can begin to focus on the genital zone.
To begin with, he can thoroughly explore the area by observing with his eyes, feeling with his hands.
Required is a slow, bit by bit process, letting one's fingers wander softly along both sides
of each lip, inching slowly upwards and downwards.
Very gently, one can let one's fingers circle around the lips, using a little oil if required.