Loosen up your wrist. You've got the stiffest uptight motion I've ever seen .. Tighten up on your fretting hand, youre coming in fuzzy, hitting strings you shouldn't and buzzing from weak fretting period. your tuned flat, aaaaand your bass string appears to be all f'd up Basically, you suck. No girl would give a shit about your playing. Just saying ... all we want is some truth !!